A self-insight test grounded in schema therapy

The patterns that run your life have names.

We measure 20 research-backed patterns and rank yours from your own answers. You get your top three free, in about 10 minutes.

Find your top 3 free

10 minutes · no signup · not a diagnosis

your top three
  • YSQ-R

    a validated schema questionnaire

  • 20 patterns

    across 5 life domains

  • 30+ years

    of schema-therapy research behind it

How it works

Three steps, about ten minutes

1

Answer honestly

About 80 short questions, first instinct. There are no right or wrong answers, and nobody is grading you.

2

See your top 3 free

We rank all 20 patterns from your answers and name the three you carry most, in plain language.

3

Go deeper if you want

The full report covers why you have each pattern, how it shows up day to day, and how to begin to soften it.

The map

Five domains your patterns fall into

Every pattern belongs to one of five areas of life. Your results show where yours gather.

Disconnection & Rejection

patterns about whether love and safety can be counted on

Impaired Autonomy

patterns about whether you can stand on your own in the world

Impaired Limits

patterns about self-control, and where your needs meet other people's

Other-Directedness

patterns about putting other people's needs ahead of your own

Overvigilance & Inhibition

patterns about holding yourself to a hard line and keeping feelings in

What you’ll see

A result you can recognize

1Unrelenting StandardsIt's never quite good enough

The feeling that you must keep pushing, because nothing is ever quite good enough.

With Unrelenting Standards, you strive relentlessly to meet extremely high expectations of yourself. The primary feeling is pressure: you are always pushing to get ahead, fighting to be the best at whatever you do.

Your real results are ranked from your answers.

Pricing

Start free. Go deeper only if you want to.

You take the test and see your free results first. You decide on a report after that.

Free Results

Free

What you’re seeing now

  • Your top 3 patterns, ranked from your answers
  • A plain look at what each one is
  • Your distribution across the 5 domains
  • No card needed
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Top 3 Report

$19one-time

Go deep on the three that grip you most

  • Everything in the free results
  • Why you have each of your top 3, and how it shows up day to day
  • Step-by-step ways to begin to soften it
  • A PDF report to download and keep
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Total 20 Report

$49one-time

Your complete pattern picture

  • Everything in the Top 3 Report
  • All 20 patterns named and opened in full
  • Your middle patterns: what to watch for
  • Your lower patterns: the quiet strengths to lean on
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Questions

Before you start

No. This is an educational tool for self-insight, not therapy, diagnosis, or clinical assessment. It names a pattern, never the person. If you are struggling, please reach out to a professional or someone you trust.

Ten minutes from now, you’ll have names for it.

Find your top 3 free

10 minutes · no signup · not a diagnosis